• Registered: 2010-01-13
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Topic: Please help me this pain is unbearable....

Last week my boyfriend told me he wanted a break from me after dating for almost 2 years. We lived together and i moved out recently. The reason why he said he needed a break was because he missed being single and not having to worry about me every time i go out with other friends. The week before the break up he was happy and even planning a holiday with me. I told him to call me when he was ready to talk again. I am finding hard to come to terms to what is really going on and trying to respect his need for space.

I have already made the mistakes of acting clingy and crying in front of him. The only thing i want now is to get him back. Our relationship did have some arguments but we always over came them. I just want to know how i can make him desire to be with me again. He said he stills loves me and doesn't want a new girlfriend. What should i do to win him back?

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  • ItzMe
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  • Registered: 2010-04-17
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Re: Please help me this pain is unbearable....

Trust me I know it hurts so so bad but please believe he's going to come back, they always do. One thing that helped me was prayer (I wasn't really in to my Christian faith at this time, but anything helps and this really helped me heal)n keeping my mind off things. Lol it's not going to be easy  at all. Another thing; don't ever wait or seem like u were!! They see this as a sign that they have you right were they want you and it leads to this predictament that your in now.

     I'll keep you in my prayers and I wish the best for you!!!
       Xoxoxoxo   ItzMe

  • Registered: 2010-06-04
  • Posts: 5

Re: Please help me this pain is unbearable....

Michelle, I went throught the same thing 2 months ago,he said the similar thinhs.Sorry to tell you this,he had started seeing someone.he told me himself.I acted cool, (but of course I did) but I was acting like I didnt care about whatever he did since we were apart.I see your boyfriend hasnt had anything like that.The thing I did was stay away not call him, answer his messages or even take his calls.Its hard but believe you will get stronger.Dont give in.Then I saw he started going going crazy to get in contact with me calling me work everyday.So I think you should give him the space and move on your normal day things but dont show you are upset or waiting for him.when they know that, they usually go about other girls then come back to you since they know you are waiting for them..Seriously try it.You'll see he will be back.Just keep a little distance, dont get any contact with him at all.especially dont you call.When he does dont jump to him right away also.Keep it cool dont get into "lets see eacthother" "catch up" "come over" right away.Whe he does, dont go running also.Say maybe someother day but be nice at the same time.Not like you are getting him back being a bitch.But like its cool, I am here still living.try it.ı did and believe me it worked perfectly.he dosent leave me side for one minute now.hope it works take care GOOD LUCK.