• Registered: 2009-09-28
  • Posts: 1

Topic: Help...

We werent getting along for a couple of days, and i ended up going online and venting to a friend about my fiance. I complained about him being overly sensitive, and didnt stand up for him when my friend bashed him. i said he was overly sensitive , insecure and taking out his other failed rellationships on me. He says im too shy, dont show that i care enough, and not talkative enough. He read the email between me and the friend, and it really hurt him. He says he feels betrayed and like he cant trust me. He also thinks i was flirting with the friend, but the friend is gay, so i totally wasnt. How do i show that i care more and make things right again..?

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  • Registered: 2009-10-07
  • Posts: 8

Re: Help...

His feelings are hurt and with good reason, not only did you bash him to you friend (who I can only assume is also a guy) but you did not stick up for him at all when your friend started bashing him.  He probably feels like he has not support from you!  Your actions speak volumes so to make up for it your will have to continue to let your actions speak (there are only so many times you can say sorry).  Make sure he knows how important he is to you and that the things you said about him were not out of anger , just like the not so nice things he said about you.  Regaining someones trust is a slow process but so worth it in the end.