Topic: Up and down

I'm 28 years old and I have been in a relationship off and on with the same guy for 3 years. He got hurt by a couple of his girlfriends in the past and hes brought the insecurities from the past into the relationship.
We fight about the same things over and over again. Usually these fights start off about something small like I didn't give him a kiss when a certain friend or person was in the room. Therefore I don't want to be with him anymore. The fight usually ends up with me leaving because he won't let me get two words in or hes drunk and him texting me with very rude and hurtful things. Things that I have never done to anybody I've been with.
Last weekend we had that fight two nights in a row.
I'm tired and hurt and now have a gut feeling to leave because hes promissed to change in the past and it never happened. I don't know whether I can trust him or not now.

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Re: Up and down

You or no one will be able to be in a relatioship with him until he gets passed his own insecurites. No matter what he would continue to bring up things that bother him but you would not be purposely doing them.