Topic: Husband cheating on the internet/email Need some advice pleaseeeeeee!!

Hello Everyone,

This is my story!

I have been married 3 years now, I met my husband and he was the man of my dreams! Soon after we married though I began to think disturbing things about his fidelity to me. I began to have these thoughts that he was screwing around.

About 6 months ago my most horrible nightmare came true when his cellphone went off and said there was email so for some reason i picked it up and took a look (something I nver do) When i did it said that he had mail from Ashley Madison, a site that is for married people looking for to have affairs.

I was livid, i confronted him that day and he got mad and then he said no i wasnt doing anything wrong i was ust looking nothing bad. I didnt like it but i wanted to believe him and i said so that is it you havent done anything else? He swore up and down that he hasnt done nothing it was simply innocent.

Well low and behold yesterday i had this same feeling, he is out of town and i am left with his laptop so what is a girl to do but to do some snooping and make sure. Well i did and i didnt like what i found.

I found numerous emails to at least 6 different women, local and some from other countries, about how he wants a good family etc. Others saying that he has broken up with me etc.

His dad just died today and i know this is not the time to say anything about it but i just want to poke him in the eye with a stick. He lied to me and straight to my face. Grrrrrrrr

Anyone have any advice as to what i should do!

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Re: Husband cheating on the internet/email Need some advice pleaseeeeeee!!

The same thing happened with my ex and me. I had a feeling he was talking to other girls online and one day when he left his computer on when he went to work one day, he left himself logged in to his email. And I saw numerous message from other girls. And he too said he was single, and not with me, etc, like what your husband had in his messages. The fact that he lied straight to your face is total bs. I would definately confront him about it.

~I'm such a fool for love....~