Topic: What do you think?

I have been friends with this guy for about 4-5 years and we are like best friends. He recently moved back to my town, which is really great.  I think he is so amazing and really like him. He doesn’t just say things because he thinks that what I want to hear. He just tells it like it is.  He is always there for me and I have never found a guy friend like that. He tells me that I don’t need any b.s. and that I need to focus on school.  Anyway, he always says that he has too much going on, which I can understand. We both work 8am-5pm and he keeps me informed on what he has to do. But we talk just about everyday and see each other when we have time if we’re not busy with work.  Well around V-Day, I got a little upset and some things caused me to act out and I took it out on him, which I know that I shouldn’t have.  We talked about it with no arguments though, which we never argue. He said that he thinks that we may have gotten a little too close, like in a negative way.  It was perfectly understood that we aren’t dating or boyfriend/girlfriend. But what I don’t understand is that he claims that he thinks we are getting a little close BUT he is the one that calls me after work everyday. He talks to me until it’s time for me to go to my night classes.  We even hangout some weekends or call and have a talk. Our friendship is not a relationship but seems a little bit more than just a friendship.  I really can tell that he likes me but sometimes I can’t be pretty sure. I’m not the type to get my hopes high over a guy though. I’m wondering if he really has interest in me or if he likes me for real.  Do you think any real interest is there?

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Re: What do you think?

i think there is. if there wasnt i dont think there would be so much time and effort put into your relationship. but im not sure if its in a girlfriend way or maybe in a friendship way

Re: What do you think?

Theres only one way to find out don't be there for every casll. See how he reacts . Then you will know

Re: What do you think?

it's funny that the one who 'tells it like it is' isn't doing so right now... I agree with the above - stop being so available for him. Maybe go on a date and explore your other options.  I'm not sugesting you play head games with him, because he is your friend and you care about it.  I'm just sugesting you give him space, distance yourself and if he cares, he will notice.  If he's the tell it like it is type, he'll call you on it. When he does, its your turn to step up to the plate and use his direct style on him. Tell it like it is. You guys are great friends, you have fun together and you care about him. You want to know if there is a possibility that this could be something more than friendship...