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Why men love Bitches is awesome. I have always been the sweet, loving, nurturing type of a woman. That has gotten me no where at all in my relationship! I ran into this book at a friends house and read it in one day!!! I am putting to use what i learned from this book and let me tell you, now my boyfriend is scared out of his pants that i might leave him! It's a must read!!
This sounds like a happy, loving relationship. You are glad that he thinks you might leave him?
mike,
No it does not make me happy that he thinks i might leave him. He has left me twice and i have accepted him back. My loving him so much has brought me nothing but heartache. After reading this book i have realized that my life shouldn't revolve around him. I should have my own life, my own routine. I get so depressed when i don't see him and that's not healthy for me. I am only trying to show him that i am an independent, beautiful woman that can and will go on without him. I still show him how much i love him i am just trying to not be as "NEEDY".
I read your other post as well, i was just giving you a hard time for the way you wrote this post.
oh ok, so what do you think about my situation. I have been in only 2 relationships my whole life and i really love him. I just give, give, and somehow feel that he doesn't appreciate what i have to offer. I would love to form a family with him. We could get a surrogate mother and have a child. I truly believe authentic love comes around only once and we should do everything possible to make this happen. I'm dying to text him but i now wait until he contacts me. Is that too much to ask?
you sound i like i sounded about 3 months ago. i thought i was madly in love with a woman. but she wasnt giving me back what i was putting in, and she ended up hurting me one too many times so i broke up with her. it hurt so bad but the wierd thing is it took about a month before i was over her and realized that she wasnt right for me. then i met someone else who was much better for me and i havent ever been happier. the things i learned from my last relationship have helped me so much, breaking up with her and learnig how to deal with all of the emotions that go along with a relationship (bad and good) have been the best thing that has ever happened to me. i am more comfortable with myself and have a better grasp of my emotions. so.....
I think you two should spend some time apart. not necessarily break up, just a couple weeks of alone time. you need to learn to be okay with just you. and he needs to see what his life would be like without you. i normally think that you need to work through your problems together. but you need to get stronger and less dependent if your relationship is going to work.
Men don't want to marry their mothers. We love crazy women
leenaps,
very true. honestly i tried to take care of this guy as much as i could. then i realized hey, he's 30, he doesn't need to be taken care of. He shouldn't need his mother either though!!!
Just as much as women like bad boys lol
I need help, I'm reading the book and find it really true and good adviser but I've a "nice girl" for so long that is hard for me to change, and when it comes to make those decions i don't know how to. First of all in order for anyone to help they must that I have lied to my boyfriend before he cought me it wasn't just any lie it was about another man but just to make it clear I didn't cheat( o and it was more than once). So he doesn't trust me! at first I tried really hard to get his trust back but now I'm just sick of it because I don't feel appreciated at all. Its been months since this happened and he uses it at his advantage even when he knows he was the one that messed up. Two weeks ago I started reading the book and decided to just leave him for good, and when I did he came back and apologize so I went right back and here I am again. Last night he texed me saying that had a bad day and didn't want me to come over so I didn't respond and didn't go over to his house or text him at all, I enjoyed myself at home watching a movie and reading a book. All of a sudden I get a text from him "hi baby", I didn't respond because I was busy watching my movie, later he starts demanding me to tell him what I was doing and where I was. I simply said "honey I was busy now I'm going to bed have a good night" He brought the subject up of the lies i told in the past and got very upset because i didn't answer his simple question "what were u doing" I don't know what to say or tell him in the morning he calls me and keeps the questioner and again i said i was relaxing i was busy. so I told him that to please respect my time. I don't know what a BITCH would do. What should I do or say without being rude???????????/ HELP PLEASEEE
