Topic: Is he interested?

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This is probably a silly question but I'm going to ask it anyway. I just met this guy at a group a couple weeks ago. We're just acquaintances right know. We've only met twice. We don't go to the same college so we only see each other at this group once a week. The first week, he introduced himself and we talked for a couple of minutes. After that 5 of us went out for coffee. Before we ordered, he and I talked for a while. He asked me a lot about myself and seemed very excited about what I was talking about. He was smiling the whole time we were talking. When he came to join the 4 of us at the table, he sat between the two tables facing me. And he also offered me one of his donuts.

The next week after the group ended, he saw me, smiled and said hi, he remembered my name then he asked how I was doing? Later when he came back into the room, I thanked him for the books. He asked if I wanted the rest of them. I said I did. He told me he was joking.

After the group, 3 of us went out for something to eat. He smiled the whole time and he always seems to stand right beside me. We all talked about different things. Whenever I wasn't saying anything, either one of the guys would notice. This particular guy asked me what I wanted to talk about. I didn't have any particular thing I wanted to talk about. We were making jokes about reading the paper and he said jokingly pointing in a general direction saying " Hey honey, what does this say." Then he proceeded to say "Not that I have a honey." When we were talking about tv and movies. I told my movie preferences and he said "We wouldn't get along" but in a nice way. When he mentioned a particular show and I said that I liked it. He said excitedly "You do" then he said " I'm surprised." He also told me that I could come to watch a movie at the college when they put it on. Once the 3 of us left the restaraunt, he wanted to see my car. He examined the back of it and said it was a really nice car. While we were outside, I mentioned that I didn't bring any blankets to residence and he said he had a ton and I could borrow one if I wanted.

So, my question is. Is he interested? Am I reading too much into this.

There's a movie playing at his college. He asked me if I had seen that movie and casually mentioned that I should go. I didn't respond at the moment. A few days later I emailed him and asked him when the movie was. He replied with a smiley face and told me when the movie was. He asked me how many people I was thinking of bringing with me. 

I asked him if I could borrow a blanket. Anyway, we met at a store and he bought me a blanket! I thanked him very much. I met him at the store and we walked around and talked a little. So, does this mean anything or is he just a real friendly guy? I mean what is your opinion. I know no one can tell for sure if he's interested but what do you think?

I did end up going to the movie alone. He sat beside me but nothing happened but I think that's because his friends were there. When he first sat down, we both looked at each other and smiled but didn't say anything. Then later on while we were watching the movie, out of the corner of my eye I caught him looking at me. I just want to know if he likes me how long do you think it will take him to ask me out? What is the shortest time period and what is the longest for a man to ask a woman out? P.S. I've never dated or been in a relationship so I don't really know how this works and I'm also shy.

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Re: Is he interested?

It definitely sounds like he is interested and flirty.  Though, he does sound like he is probably shy also and doesn't want to move to fast or scare you away.  By continuing to stay in contact with him and make a point of doing things with him it should become apparent that you are interested also and hopefully he will make a move.  You can also make a move too, though.  Invite him to do something where just the two of you hang out and see what happens from there.  Don't worry about it too much and just go with the flow.  Having fun and not being nervous will definitely help move the potential for relationship along....

Re: Is he interested?

Me and this guy have been friends since school started last semester. hes a couple years younger than me though, iv always said i wouldnt date younger guys, but he changed my opinion on that. we have so much in common, we both LOVE sports. hes just the kind of guy i would want to be with. we go to the gym and hang out sometimes and text everyday. we both admitted to each other we have feelings for each other a couple months ago, but nothing happened. i get a hug every once in a while, and when he sees im upset he always comes over to see whats wrong. does he want a relationship with me?

Re: Is he interested?

I have been seeing a guy on and off for the last yr in between I had a boyfriend for about 5 months and recently broke up with him about 2 months ago and have started seein this other guy again he talks like I'm a player and I know he talks to other girls too. Recently I just told him how I really feel about him that I like him a lot and he text back good game I'm not fallling for it tho he came over about 2 days ago in the morning spent the whole day and into the night with me we made out and he told me that he has never kissed a girl like that before and then told me he loved me. He had to leave and said he would be back well I did not hear from him till the morning and he said hey I said what and he asked what the attutide was for and I said well you promised you were coming back and you never did and he said if you knew what happened to me and hung up so i text him that he could of at least called or text letting me know that he was okay cause I was worried and I was sorry for being a bitch he does this all the time I alwasy joke with him how he only talks to me about every 3 days and he says it's not true but anytime he text me I instantly respond or if he calls I answer but then I call him or text he rarely responds right away now I have not hear from him i 2 days accept for him sending me a forward last night....Is this guy just playing games with me or does he think that I am playing games with hima nd what should I  do I have made myself not call or text him today no matter haow bad I really want to what do I do?