ok so now we still live together and are termed "friends with benefits" and we still go out together at least once a week and spend almost everyday together. but now he is also dating this other girl he says that he is not looking for anything serious and its just dating we were together for 4 years. he says that we have a chance to still be together in the future what am i missing? if you want to be with me and work things out then why are you dating this other girl? and the thing is i went to high school with her. and she hated my guts. i dont know what to do? please help