Topic: what should i do???

I am a 20 years old boy and my ex is the same age with me. We were together for about 8 months before breaking up. We were very happy together but we used to have issues before because i used to control her. We had a break up before but we got back together. After that we were happy only for a while. She started to message n talk with a guy for long hours. Both of us are 1st year undergraduates in medicine, while the other guy is a doctor doing his masters. She started to go out for dinner with this doctor often and then she started to go to his house alone and this things she hid from me. I got to know it from her friends and i saw her hanging out with him myself. She never tell me anything about this. When i confronted her, she said that they r just friends and i apologised for not trusting her. But then she started to refuse to meet me whenever i call her. She says that she is busy but then she will go out with this man. This man is rich and is working while i m not. 4 weeks later she called me up and said that she wants to end this relationship. She said that she is not happy with me and i don’t trust her and the doctor understands her better. I went through a miserable time because she broke up with me before my exams. After my exam i called her parents up and warned them about this doctor. I did not tell her parents anything about us. She hates me for calling up her parents.  All her friends hates this doctor. We feel like he is just using her for fun. She even fought with her friends when they advised her about this man.  I am studying in the same place like her and it hurts so much to look at her. I am scared that this man will play her off. I really love her and i don’t know where i went wrong. She is the first girl that i went so deep physically with. My friends advise me to forget her and move on, but i still want to make things right if i can. Do u think i have any chance???

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Re: what should i do???

Your girlfriend decided to go for the older guy with more money and prestige. These qualities can definitely be an attraction for women.  So it's not a surprise that she was attracted to this guy.  Only she knows how she really feels about him.  Then there's you.   First, talking to her parents was not smart.  Your relationship was with her and that only made the situation worse.  She's made a decision on what she wants for now.  Perhaps later she'll feel differently, but all you can do is deal with the present reality. As hard as it is you need to stay strong, suck it up, and focus on other things.  Perhaps she'll come back, but don't count on it.

Re: what should i do???

Yup. I did a mistake by talking with the parents. As u say i need to be strong and move on. But i m going to be studying in the same place with her and have to look at her all the time,  and she does many things to irritate me. And i feel bad for my actions and i just hope that she wont have any hatred towards me.