• Registered: 2009-03-31
  • Posts: 8

Topic: in love with taken man

i'm in love with a taken man.  for a while, we were spending lots of time together and he kept saying he wanted to see more of me and suggesting things to do together.  i was uncomfortable with that situation so i would nod and agree, but i never initiated anything but he never really followed up and the level of contact dropped off.  he went back to spending lots of time with his girlfriend and i really hadn't talked to him much.  That was rough.  but recently i've been bumping into him and he'll invite me to go out with him whenever i do - yet there is no communication in between.  I can't tell what he wants, or what I want or how I want it to play out, but I know I am crazy about him.  What can I do to either communicate with him or get over him?

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  • Registered: 2009-09-02
  • Posts: 7

Re: in love with taken man

Play hard to get and use what you got. Tell him your not going to keep doing that and if he really likes you he will make an effort to get with you. If he doesn't and he only contacts you now and again maybe he is just hanging on to you for when he is having problems with his girl. Don't put yourself through being put off to the side.... you are not a side dish to some one you should be their main course... yeah sometimes people will find some one they fall in love with and they will leave their lover for the other but in most cases it doesn't happen.. lay down the law with him.