• Sonia
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  • Registered: 2009-07-09
  • Posts: 1

Topic: What do I do wrong?

Hi Team,

I have been single for a quit a while now and I seen to have the same problem over and over again.
I meet someone, we have great sex and then they dont want a serious relationship with me and most of them, ended up marrying the next woman they meet. We always talk a lot about relationships and I seen to help them understand what important is in a relationship. So it seems to me that they learn from me and then apply my advice to the next woman.

What am I doing wrong?

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  • Registered: 2009-06-03
  • Posts: 17

Re: What do I do wrong?

Do you have sex with these men on the first or second date?   That may be the problem We need a little bit more detail to try to speculate on what is happening here. Maybe you are coming on too strong or maybe you are just dating the wrong guys. 

It seems like your heart is in the right place.  There are a lot of good guys out there who are looking for a nice lady like you.  I hope you find the man of your dreams.

  • Registered: 2005-12-07
  • Posts: 206

Re: What do I do wrong?

Try it the other way around.  Let the relationship evolve slowly and work up to a more serious commitment.  They also might view you on a sexual level first so perhaps you need to change your image.  Most men are naturally sexually aggressive and may regard someone who readily has sex with them as too "easy" and while they may like you, they don't view you as serious relationship material.  As a wise man once said, " why buy the cow when the milk's for free."