• Registered: 2009-06-20
  • Posts: 1

Topic: Not sure???

I was with my ex fiance for two years. We just split up a month ago. During the two years we were off and on. He is now on a dating site. But he still sends me emails. Joke emails. He sends some of them just to me and others are all blind copy so I can't see who he is sending them too. I do still love him and would love to be back with him, but if he is already dating, then why keep sending me these joke emails? He also checks my myspace page (we are not friends on there). What do I do? I don't contact him and I don't send him any emails. I don't even respond to the ones he sends me? Why is he doing this?
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I told him that if he didn't see me in is future then he needed to let me go. He said (later) that he had to let me go, because he needed time for himself. We lived together and I moved out but we kept sleeping together. I couldn't do it anymore and told him to let me go. He did let me go, on now he is onto dating. It wasn't a ugly break up. He cried.

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  • Registered: 2009-06-20
  • Posts: 2

Re: Not sure???

This is probably not what you want to hear, but I feel the need to share what I have learned with you. I was in a very similar relationship as well. We broke up over 2 years ago. We have talked ever since. I still love him and want to be with him. We have been talking and have re-established our relationship, but after  I decided to be abstinent until marriage, as hard as that sounds, this is the most beneficial decision I have ever made in a relationship. This allows not only the other person but yourself to communicate on a completely different level and realize what is important in a relationship. If he values you and respects you he will realize it through this decision. If he continues to see other people then he does not see you in a perspective marriage. If he wants to be exclusive then this will make your relationship stronger and even more meaningful.