I have been talking to this guy for about a year now, and i made the mistake of having sex with him before even trying to get into a relationship with him. Actually he lost his virginity with me. Now i am so into him and he "doesnt want a girlfriend." I just don't know what to do now. Him and i always have so much fun. i just want him to realize i am not just a good friend but a good girlfriend. The other thing is that his brother is my best friend and his family is closed to my family too, so i dont know if i am doing the right thing trying to be with him. Things are just really complicated!  Please give me advice people!