• Registered: 2008-11-06
  • Posts: 2

Topic: I Don't Know What To Do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been dating a guy that I've known for 10 years.  It's been 4 months now.  However, because his mom is insane and my parents don't approve, we've been dating secretly.  My mom said that I can never be with him because she HATES his mom.  Should I be in this for love? Because I know that this really is love.  Or should I listen to my parents?  I'm so confused.  I love him so much, but his mom has threatened to call the cops for some reason when i haven't done anything wrong.  She has been lying to everyone to try and keep us apart, and now she has gotten her wish. He and I aren't allowed to see eachother or talk because my parents did find out thanks to her.  He loves me and he's the only person that has treated me like I'm worth more than sex.  And I love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him.  I don't know what to do.  Can you help me? it's either I lose my parent's respect by marrying someone that I love, or I lose my love to keep their respect. He has done nothing wrong.  It's his mom.  Please help me.  I'm so confused.

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  • Registered: 2008-06-22
  • Posts: 52

Re: I Don't Know What To Do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you old enough to move out and be on your own?  Or is he?  If yes; then I suggest you think about becoming a little more independent and get an apartment with a girlfriend or two.  And that he do the same. 

You/He should not be having sex if you aren't paying your own rent.

Your relationship with your boyfriend will not be "in your parent's face" so much and maybe in time...they will cool off.

If you are still in highschool...then you need to slow things down.  Respect your parents...they love you...believe it or not...they have your best interest at heart and they want nothing but the best for you.  I remember being infatuated...in love with my high school sweet heart and I would have married him...he bought me a ring and everything...but instead I went to visit a cousin in FL for a couple months and found that yes...I cared for him but hey there's a world out here and I'm not ready to be a wife and a mom...I want more than that...maybe that's what you need.  Sometimes distance clears your head.  (and don't call him everyday)