Topic: husband's sexual past

My husband and I married last year after being together for 11 months.  i had been divorced a very short time after being married young.  He had never been married and was quite the party boy at 36.  Although he claims to enjoy being settled down now, something happened today that bothered me immensely.  While watching a tv show with the suggestion of a threesome, my husband cheered and made a comment to my 15 year old son (in front of me) that he had done that.  I approached him a short time later and said that made me feel very uncomfortable and I'd rather he didn't talk about such things in front of us.  He told me to "grow up" and totally discounted my feelings.  In order to make a point,  I asked if he would want to know about a time when I did that (which I never did).  He angrily drove away and later told me that he was no longer attracted to me because I said had done that.  I explained it was a lie, gave him space and we went on with our day without any other discussion.   I am still bothered now knowing for a fact that he did that and has such great memories of it that I don't see how I'll ever get past it or have sex with him again.  What do I do to get over this?

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Re: husband's sexual past

your not fit to be together. you both need to grow up. what you did in your past., is your past. You need to focus on your futher. if it bothered everytime a woman I dasted told me about her past. I would never date or been married. You both need to grow up